One key to avoiding stress is knowing that it’s okay just to say, “No, I’m not participating.”
It is long been known that on the scale of psychological stresses, the holidays rank near number one.
Why is that?
As you probably guessed, there are many reasons—who can’t name a few? Finances, our and our spouses’ expectations, and—often the biggest—family.
It could be this has been a physically or financially difficult year for you. If so, the holidays might bring dread rather than joy.
One of the most important things to understand is that it’s okay just to say, “No, I’m not participating.” Seriously, I read this many years ago in one of my favorite life simplification books.
Yes, this could be the right solution for you. Sometimes one of the healthiest things we can do is just choose not to participate in chosen—or all—holiday activities.
Psychologists will be the first to tell us that, as adults, the most stressful things the holidays bring are our own expectations that they will miraculously do something for us that they can’t.
So, some people will choose travel, go away for the day, or simply be by themselves. What keeps you happy and healthy is exactly what you should do!
Others seemingly will suffer through anything, and complain about it all the while. This is how you stress yourself out!
Yet others embrace the season with joy.
Whatever it is for you, start by making a healthy choice.
Like everything, keep in mind it is a choice.
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